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The dead came home as 'cargo 200' in welded zinc coffins that families were forbidden to open, so mothers buried boxes whose contents they could not confirm. The sealed coffin cuts grief off from the body, and the official story of the death replaces what actually happened. The state's control of the dead extends into control of how they are mourned and remembered.
The Soviet state described the war as 'fulfilling internationalist duty' and building schools and roads, while soldiers remembered killing, drug use, hazing and looting. When returnees found that their experience had no public language and no public acknowledgment, their suffering became unspeakable at home. This deepened their alienation beyond the trauma of combat itself.
Instead of reconstructing the war from strategy, statistics or official documents, the book puts together many anonymous first-person testimonies from privates, nurses, widows and mothers. Their contradictions, emotions and small details are kept rather than smoothed into one account. Truth appears as a chorus of partial voices, and the gaps between them show what an official history leaves out.
Veterans describe coming back to a society that did not want to hear about the war and treated them as awkward reminders or even as criminals. Their wartime values, where violence was normal and loyalty to comrades came first, no longer fit civilian life. Many felt more at home with fellow 'Afgantsy' than with their own families.