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After Nawab Nazar Muhammad Khan was killed in 1819, his widow Qudsia Begum ruled as regent. She was followed by her daughter Sikandar, granddaughter Shah Jahan and great-granddaughter Sultan Jahan, each holding the throne against male relatives with competing claims. Sultan Jahan abdicated in 1926 to her son Hamidullah, ending a century of female rule in a Muslim princely state under British paramountcy.
Sikandar Begum sided with the British during the 1857 uprising. She then converted that service into formal recognition of her own right to rule, which the Company had resisted in favor of male claimants. A weak ruler under an overlord can turn a crisis that tests the overlord into lasting title, provided they are visibly useful at the decisive moment.
When British officials questioned whether a woman could rule, the Begums pointed to Queen Victoria. By citing the colonizer's own sovereign, they made opposition to female rule look inconsistent with the Crown itself. The mechanism turns the dominant power's symbols into the subordinate's argument, so that refusing the claim requires the powerful to contradict themselves.
The author is a descendant of the dynasty and a career diplomat. That gives him access to family papers and an insider's feel for court maneuvering. It also inclines him to read the Begums' choices charitably and to smooth over conflicts. Read the account as both privileged testimony and partisan advocacy, and check its judgments of rival claimants and British officials against outside sources.