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In 1928 Waldemar Nods, a young Surinamese man, came to the Netherlands to study and lodged with Rika van der Lans, a married Dutch mother many years his senior. Their affair produced a son, Waldy, and led to scandal, the break-up of her marriage, and the loss of her other children.
People already expelled from respectable society by scandal have already paid the social cost of defying norms. That lowers the relative price of further defiance, such as hiding fugitives under occupation. Marginality can work as a kind of rehearsal for moral risk rather than a barrier to it.
A colonial subject who travels to the mother country arrives legally as a member of the nation but is read socially as exotic, a curiosity and a threat. Tracking where formal belonging and everyday acceptance diverge shows how empire's racial hierarchy operated inside the metropole, not only in the colonies.
A mixed-race child of a transgressive union inherits the stigma of the relationship and the racial categorization of the parent, so identity is assigned to the child before he can choose it. When war removes the parents, the child's fate depends on institutions and foster families who hold the same prejudices the parents defied.