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1. Modou's secret marriage and the mirasse

   After twenty-five years of marriage and twelve children, Modou Fall secretly married Binetou, a schoolfriend of his daughter Daba, and sent his brother, an imam and a friend to tell Ramatoulaye only after the wedding. He then stopped coming home, spent lavishly on Binetou's family, and died of a heart attack. At the mirasse it emerged that he had mortgaged the villa he and Ramatoulaye had paid for together in order to buy Binetou a villa of her own, leaving his first family in debt.

2. Mirasse: posthumous disclosure of hidden accounts

   The mirasse, the Islamic practice of declaring a dead person's possessions so they can be divided, forces open everything the deceased concealed, including debts, gifts, second households and mortgages. Because the reading happens only after death, the person who hid things never pays for it. The shame and the losses fall on the survivors who were deceived. Financial transparency that arrives only at death works as an audit of betrayal, not as a protection.

3. Polygamy permits abandonment without formal divorce

   A husband who takes a second wife under a system that officially requires equal treatment can simply stop visiting and stop providing, and the first wife has no clear recourse. She is neither divorced nor supported.

4. Exit versus staying and refusing further claims

   Faced with the same betrayal, Aïssatou took the exit option: she divorced Mawdo when he took a second wife, trained as an interpreter and rebuilt her life abroad with her sons. Ramatoulaye stayed in the marriage but drew her line at widowhood, rejecting the brother-in-law Tamsir's claim to inherit her as a wife and declining a suitor she did not love. The contrast shows that a woman's agency can be exercised either by leaving the structure or by refusing the next claim the structure makes on her.

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