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Abdellah grows up in a family of eleven crowded into a small house in Salé, Morocco, where he fixates on his older brother Abdelkébir and joins him on a summer trip to Tangier. As a university student in Rabat he becomes the lover of Jean, an older Swiss man, and later wins a scholarship to Geneva. When he arrives, Jean does not take him in as he had expected, and he ends up alone and poor in a Salvation Army hostel.
When many people share a few rooms and sometimes one bed, there is no private space in which sexuality can form apart from the family. Desire is learned by overhearing parents and by closeness to siblings' bodies, so the first objects of longing are domestic ones, such as an older brother. Material scarcity rewires intimacy before any ideology about sex reaches the child.
A relationship with an older Western lover can feel like a way out for a poor Moroccan youth, but the relationship depends on an imbalance of money, mobility and power. Once the youth reaches the West, the protector's interest cools, and the promised welcome turns into dependence on charity. The hostel's name, Salvation Army, marks the gap between the salvation he imagined and the institutional handout he actually receives.
The family and neighborhood absorb a boy's queerness as long as it stays unspoken. Everyone may sense it, but naming it would force a rupture, so silence works as both protection and erasure. Writing plainly in the first person breaks this arrangement by saying what the community has kept unsaid.