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In April 1948 Said S. and his wife Safiyya are swept out of Haifa during the Haganah assault and forced to leave behind their five-month-old son, Khaldun. After the 1967 war opens the borders, they return to their house and find it occupied by Miriam, a Polish Jewish Holocaust survivor who raised the boy as Dov. Dov is now an Israeli army reservist, and he rejects his birth parents, blaming them for abandoning him and choosing Miriam as his mother.
Identity is formed by upbringing, loyalty and the cause a person is raised to serve, and blood ties cannot override it. When Dov rejects them, Said concludes that 'man is a cause': biological parenthood gives no claim on who a person has become. Belonging is built by the life lived, not inherited through lineage.
Returning to the physical remnants of the past cannot recover a homeland, because the house, the objects and even the child have been absorbed into another life. Said redefines the homeland as 'where none of this can happen,' a condition still to be secured rather than a memory to revisit. This leads him to hope his younger son Khalid has joined the armed resistance, the path he once forbade.
When an occupying power opens the borders and allows the dispossessed to visit what they lost, the openness works as a demonstration of irreversibility, not as generosity. Said reads the opened checkpoints as a message: see it all, and see that it is no longer yours. On this view, access to lost property without restitution deepens dispossession by making the loss visible and final.