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Seged, lord of Ethiopia, withdraws to his palace on the island of Dambea and decrees that he will enjoy ten days of uninterrupted happiness, with every pleasure arranged in advance. He records the failure so others will not repeat it. The tale shows that happiness pursued by decree and schedule defeats itself, because the vigilance needed to secure it becomes the source of unease.
Human beings are rarely present to the moment. The mind habitually runs forward to some expected good, and this makes present satisfaction almost impossible. Hope is necessary to keep people acting, but it systematically overvalues what is coming, so each attainment disappoints and is at once replaced by a new expectation.
Argument and consolation cannot dislodge sorrow, because grief feeds on the leisure to dwell on loss. The effective remedy is to fill the mind with employment and new objects of attention. Grief then loses its hold through displacement rather than refutation, and indulging it in idle solitude only lengthens it.
Biography instructs most when it records domestic habits, small choices and daily conduct rather than battles and state affairs. Most readers will never face public greatness but constantly face ordinary temptations. The minute particulars of a life are therefore the parts a reader can actually apply, and public deeds often conceal the real person.
People deceive themselves by crediting their own resolutions and good intentions as if they were accomplished acts, while judging others only by what they actually do. Because intentions cost nothing and are always sincere in the moment, repeated resolving creates a comfortable illusion of virtue. This lets real reform be postponed indefinitely.