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Ya'ara, a young Jerusalem academic married to the gentle, sexually distant Yoni, meets Arie, her father's old friend and her mother's former lover, when he visits her parents' home. She pursues him obsessively despite his coldness and cruelty, neglecting her work and dismantling her marriage. Her compulsion draws her into the buried history between Arie and her parents, which she has inherited without knowing it.
Arie's indifference and contempt feed Ya'ara's attachment instead of ending it, while Yoni's kindness leaves her cold. Intermittent, withheld affection binds a lover more tightly than steady warmth, because the craving centers on winning what is refused.
Ya'ara's choice of her mother's former lover reads as an unconscious reenactment of her parents' unfinished story rather than a free choice. On this reading, an overwhelming desire can be a way of entering and repeating a family's hidden past, so the affair works as a kind of inquiry into where one came from.
The book uses an unbroken stream-of-consciousness voice with long run-on sentences and little separation between thought, memory, and event. The form reproduces the obsessive mind's inability to pause, reflect, or step outside its fixation. The reader is held in the same claustrophobic loop as the narrator.