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A single life can be written with no 'I' at all: the self appears only as 'she' in photographs and as part of a generational 'we' and 'one'. The personal then serves as a register of the collective. What one woman remembers shows what a whole generation was able to think, want and say at a given moment, so memory becomes social history and not confession.
The book follows a woman born in 1940 in Normandy, from a working-class café-grocery family, through scholarship-driven schooling, marriage, motherhood, teaching, divorce and ageing. Each era opens with a description of a photograph of her, which becomes the anchor for that period. Around each photograph the book sets out the period's family dinner conversations, consumer goods, songs, advertisements and political events: postwar scarcity, Algeria, May 68, Mitterrand's 1981 victory, the arrival of the market and the internet, and 9/11.
Recording these ready-made phrases shows how people's desires and judgments were shaped for them. It also shows how quickly one era's certainties become unintelligible to the next.
The book argues that the shift from postwar scarcity to mass consumption changed how people lived time as well as how they lived materially. Novelty came to replace tradition, and objects came to mark the years. Accelerating product cycles and later the flow of media dissolved the shared past and future into a continuous present. This left individuals with more things and weaker collective memory.