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In one letter Bing Xin recalls asking her mother why she loved her. Her mother answered, in substance, that there was no reason except that Bing Xin was her daughter. Bing Xin treats this as the discovery that maternal love is unconditional, attached to the child's existence rather than to her merits, and so cannot be earned or lost.
She presents her lingering remorse as a real moral failure rather than a trivial incident. She offers the confession to children as proof that an adult's tenderness toward small creatures can fail at the moment it is needed.
Writing from a sanatorium outside Boston during a long lung illness, Bing Xin argues that sickness strips away the busyness of study and ambition. The forced idleness gives her time to watch snow, trees and sky closely and to reflect on home, so illness becomes a condition for gratitude and insight instead of pure loss.
The letters build a 'philosophy of love' on three linked sources: a mother's unconditional love, the unspoiled heart of the child, and the consoling beauty of nature. Each is used to explain the others. Nature comforts like a mother, children stand closest to nature and love, and a person far from home stays whole by holding on to all three.
Bing Xin addresses young readers as 'little friends' and tells them about her homesickness, her faults, her illness and her tears instead of giving them lessons. Treating the child reader as an equal who is owed honesty changes children's writing from instruction into companionship. The author's vulnerability becomes the way values are passed on.