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In Colombo, Yasodhara's Sinhala family lives in the same house as a Tamil family upstairs, and the children grow up together. When the anti-Tamil riots of Black July 1983 sweep the city, the Sinhala household hides their Tamil neighbors from the mobs. The shared house survives, but the violence breaks the family's belief that they can stay, and they emigrate to Los Angeles.
Saraswathi, a Tamil girl in the war-torn north who wants to become a teacher, is raped by Sri Lankan army soldiers. Shamed within her community and with her future closed off, she joins the Tamil Tigers and is trained as a suicide bomber. Her attack in the south kills civilians, including a member of the Sinhala family whose story runs parallel to hers.
The novel alternates first-person voices from each side of the conflict, a Sinhala emigrant and a Tamil fighter. This shows each group's suffering as a mirror of the other's, with parallel losses, attachments to land, and grief. Seen this way, 'the enemy' looks like a reflection with a different history rather than a different kind of person. Violence that each side experiences alone turns out to be a shared national wound.