Advising a grieving woman to live
A woman visits Sōseki's sickroom, recounts a painful love affair, and asks whether she should go on living or die. He tells her to live, reasoning that time dulls even the sharpest memory and that this forgetting is a mercy. Late at night he walks her home, then admits in the essay that he is unsure his advice was right, because it asks her to trade a cherished pain for ordinary, diminished survival.
