I Do Not Come to You by Chance

Adaobi Tricia Nwaubani

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1. Engineering graduate's slide into uncle's scams

   Kingsley Ibe, an Igbo first son with a chemical engineering degree, cannot find work despite his principled father's faith that education and honesty would secure the family. When his father falls gravely ill and the family cannot pay for treatment, and his girlfriend Ola leaves him for lack of money, he joins his uncle Boniface, 'Cash Daddy,' in writing 419 advance-fee emails. He proves gifted at it, stringing a foreign victim, Mr. Winterbottom, through successive rounds of fees.

2. First-son duty converts poverty into complicity

   In a kinship system where the eldest son is the family's insurance policy, failing to provide feels like a greater moral failure than providing by illegitimate means. Obligation to siblings' school fees and a parent's medical bills makes crime look like responsibility. Refusing the uncle's money would look like pride purchased at the family's expense.

3. Wealth that launders its own origins

   In a society with collapsed institutions, visible wealth confers respect, church honor, political access and marriage prospects regardless of where it came from. The community's deference to the rich scammer, not the scam itself, is what makes the trade rational. Cash Daddy's move from fraud into electoral politics shows illicit money buying legitimacy rather than being punished.

4. The greedy-victim justification for fraud

   The scammers sustain their self-image by telling themselves that only greedy people who want easy money answer 419 letters, so victims are complicit in their own fleecing. This framing is often paired with a sense that wealthy foreigners owe something to a poor, exploited country. The result is a moral bookkeeping that recasts theft as a fair transfer. Treating the operation as a professional business, with an office, staff, scripts and craft pride, reinforces the story.

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