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As an adult cricket journalist, Emma John sought out the England players she idolised as a teenager, including Angus Fraser, Robin Smith, Jack Russell, Devon Malcolm and Chris Lewis, to learn what their lives had become. Her heroes' post-sport lives were far less settled than the myths she had built around them.
Supporting a side that loses constantly asks the fan to keep investing hope with little return. Because the payoff is rare, loyalty stops depending on results and turns into part of the fan's identity. Occasional individual triumphs inside collective failure come to matter more than routine wins would for a successful team's supporters.
A girl who adopts a sport that assumes its audience is male has no social place ready for her fandom. She builds belonging privately, through scorecards, statistics, radio commentary and bedroom shrines, instead of through shared terrace rituals. Seeing fandom this way shows how enthusiasm can become a solitary route into a world that does not recognise her as part of its audience.
A teenage fan builds a detailed inner relationship with players who do not know she exists, and she projects meaning, character and moral stakes onto their performances. Meeting them in person turns the idol back into an ordinary, fallible man with his own version of events, which is often bleaker than hers. The fan then has to hold two realities at once: what the heroes meant to her, and what the experience actually cost them.