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Over the following decades she escapes by marrying a man of higher social standing and moving into the educated middle class, while her parents and siblings stay behind in the old conditions. The book tracks what she gains and what severs between her and her family from the 1930s into the 1960s.
Rising in class requires learning new codes of speech, taste and behavior, and each one learned becomes a mark of distance from home. The climber comes to feel shame toward the family who produced her and never fully belongs in the class she enters. Mobility shows up as a personal split carried inside one person, not only as an economic gain.
The rise of the Danish welfare state is shown through one family's daily life rather than through policy or politics: what they eat, where they live, whether they are ill, and which children get schooling. Seen this way, large structural reform appears as uneven personal fortune. It reaches some family members in time and arrives too late for others.
The title takes up the dignifying language that labor and social-democratic politics used about ordinary working people. It then sets that language against the hardship, bitterness and entrapment the family actually lives through. The phrase names a real worth in poor people's lives while showing how an idealizing slogan can erase the conditions those people want to escape.