Conformity trades your perception for approval
Your own spontaneous perception is a private access to general truth; what you feel is true in your own heart is likely true for all people. Conforming to society's expectations means suppressing that perception, and you forfeit it: you later hear your rejected thoughts spoken back by someone else with 'a certain alienated majesty.' Self-trust is therefore an epistemic duty to report what you actually see, not a form of egoism.
