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Marguerite was born in Brussels on 8 June 1903. Her mother, Fernande de Cartier de Marchiennes, died about ten days later of puerperal fever and peritonitis, leaving the infant with her father, Michel de Crayencour. Decades later, the daughter reconstructs from documents, photographs, and hearsay a mother she never knew, and she refuses to claim a grief she says she cannot honestly feel.
The author refers to herself as 'the being I refer to as I' and describes her own birth in the third person. She applies to herself and her mother the same distance a historian applies to any archival subject. This detachment replaces inherited sentiment with inquiry, so the family becomes material to be understood rather than a bond to be honored.
The original title, Souvenirs pieux, names the Catholic memorial cards printed for the dead, which carry a conventional portrait and devout formulas. Yourcenar reads these cards both for what their pious conventions smooth over and for what slips through them, as in Michel's awkward tribute to Fernande. The cards serve as evidence to be read critically rather than only as a sanitized substitute for the person.