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In New York, Sophie's mother Martine repeatedly 'tests' her daughter's virginity by manual inspection, as Martine's own mother did to her. To end the testing, Sophie deliberately ruptures her hymen with a wooden pestle, fails the next test, and is expelled from the house. She marries Joseph, an older musician, but carries lasting sexual phobia and bulimia into the marriage.
Sophie and Martine learn to 'double': during testing or unwanted sex, they mentally leave the body and go somewhere pleasant so the violation seems to happen to a body they are not in. The technique helps them endure the moment, and Sophie carries it into her marriage, but the novel traces the lasting damage to the violations themselves, not to the coping response.
Virginity testing passes from grandmother Ifé to Martine to Sophie, framed as a mother's duty to guard a daughter's purity and the family's honor. Sophie names the harm and vows not to test her own daughter, while still seeking reconciliation with her mother and grandmother rather than rejecting them.
At sixteen, Martine was raped in a Haitian cane field by a masked man, and Sophie was conceived from that rape. Decades later in New York, Martine still has nightly nightmares and sees the rapist when she looks at Sophie's face. After becoming pregnant again, she stabs herself in the stomach seventeen times and dies. At the burial, Sophie attacks the cane in that field, and her grandmother asks, 'Ou libéré?' ('Are you free?').