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Mernissi argues that Islamic doctrine, unlike the Western Freudian model of female passivity, treats women as sexually active and powerful beings whose desire can overwhelm men. Because women are seen as dangerous agents rather than inert objects, the social order is built to contain them rather than to deny their sexuality.
Sexual segregation exists because heterosexual love is treated as a rival to the believer's total allegiance to Allah and to the umma. Spatial separation and weak conjugal bonds keep men's emotional investment directed toward God and the male community instead of toward a wife.
Muslim society is organized into two spatial universes, the public umma of men, religion, and power, and the domestic universe of women, sexuality, and family. Each sphere carries its own rules and authority, and social stability depends on keeping the boundary between them intact.
The family system deliberately weakens the husband-wife bond by elevating the mother-son relationship. The mother-in-law becomes the man's primary emotional anchor and the wife's rival, so marital love is structurally prevented from becoming a destabilizing force.
In Morocco, schooling, wage labor, and urban migration bring women into the male public sphere, breaking the spatial boundaries the old order relied on. Because no new model of heterosexual partnership yet exists, men and women meet as strangers without shared rules, producing anxiety, conflict, and anomie rather than straightforward liberation.