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Elfrieda von Riesen, a celebrated concert pianist raised in a strict Mennonite town in Manitoba, is hospitalized in a Winnipeg psychiatric ward after a suicide attempt. While Yoli struggles over whether to agree, Elf dies by suicide in the same way their father had years earlier, and Yoli is left to go on with the rest of the family.
When someone you love persistently and lucidly wants to die, love gives two opposite commands: fight to keep them here, or honor their stated wish and help them leave. Both are forms of loyalty, and neither is clearly right. The survivor carries guilt whichever path they take, because the conflict is between two real duties, not between love and selfishness.
Psychiatric care is designed to keep a suicidal patient physically alive through observation, medication and discharge rules. It rarely engages with why the patient wants to die. For a patient whose despair is long-standing and articulate, this can feel like being held captive rather than helped, which pushes her toward deceiving the staff until she is released.
Depression here runs in the family line, from a gentle father who took his life to his daughter. It is made worse by a religious community whose elders treat art, curiosity and female ambition as rebellion. The girl who escapes to become an artist still carries both the family illness and the community's condemnation, so her success doesn't cure what she inherited.