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Everything that determines a person's lot in life falls into three classes: what a person is (personality, health, character, intelligence), what a person has (property and possessions), and what a person represents (reputation, rank, honor in the eyes of others). The first category matters most because it is intrinsic and constant, while the other two are external and contingent.
The same external event affects two people entirely differently depending on their temperament, so subjective conditions determine well-being more than objective ones. A cheerful, healthy, intelligent person extracts joy from modest circumstances, while a dull or melancholy person remains miserable amid wealth and acclaim.
People with rich inner mental lives need little external stimulation and can entertain themselves through thought, while those with empty minds chronically depend on society, luxury, and diversion to escape boredom. The vacuum of an unfurnished mind drives the restless pursuit of amusement that the intelligent person does not require.
Honor, rank, and fame exist only as opinions in other people's minds and have no direct bearing on one's actual experience of life, yet humans irrationally sacrifice real comfort to manipulate these mental images. Seeing reputation as something that happens inside strangers' heads reveals how absurd it is to let it govern one's happiness.
Suffering is the directly felt, positive reality of life, while pleasure and happiness are only the temporary absence of pain or want rather than positive states in themselves. Therefore wisdom aims at avoiding suffering rather than pursuing enjoyment, since the latter is illusory and the former is the genuine substance of experience.
Happiness depends on the ratio between what one expects and what one has, so limiting one's claims, ambitions, and comparisons protects against the misery that wealth and success otherwise breed through escalating desire. Restricting the horizon of wants and avoiding the contrast of others' fortunes produces more equanimity than acquisition ever can.