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The Coaching Habit: Say Less, Ask More, and Change the Way You Lead Forever

Michael Bungay Stanier

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  1. Seven essential coaching questions

    Stanier offers seven questions (opening with 'What's on your mind?') that let a manager coach through inquiry instead of jumping to answers. The questions are the reusable tool that structures any coaching conversation.

  2. Tame the advice monster

    Managers default to giving advice too quickly, which disempowers reports and often solves the wrong problem. Staying curious a little longer produces better thinking and ownership from the other person.

  3. The kickstart and AWE question

    'What's on your mind?' opens without agenda, and 'And what else?' (AWE) surfaces the real issue behind the first one stated. Simple repeatable prompts do the heavy lifting of a coaching habit.

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