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When a mistake or setback happens, immediately reset to the next action rather than dwelling on the error, using a coded phrase as a mental trigger to discard the emotional residue. A pre-agreed shorthand lets you interrupt the spiral of self-recrimination in real time and return focus to what is controllable now.
The open-side flanker's value lies in arriving first to contested ball at the tackle and operating in the legally ambiguous zone right at the edge of the rules without crossing into penalties. Excellence here means reading split-second contests faster than opponents and absorbing physical punishment while staying technically precise enough to avoid being penalized.
Early in his career, a mentor had McCaw write 'GAB' (Great All Black) on a napkin to commit to an ambition too audacious to say aloud, deliberately framing the goal as a destination rather than just making the team. Naming a higher-than-comfortable target privately created an internal standard that drove daily choices long before public results appeared.
Authority as captain comes from being the person who consistently does the unseen, demanding work first, so that the right to ask others for effort is already paid for. The captaincy is legitimized through visible personal example rather than the formal position, meaning what the leader physically does sets the team's tolerable baseline.